Western societies are commonly described as democracies but in practice the extent to which the people rule is very limited. Instead of rule by the people the deal is that the people let a politcal class rule and manage the economy and society in return for the freedom to live within a framework of consumer goods and private freedoms. Those who have, have the goods and those who have not are brought into the political consensus of passivity by welfare benefits. In return for these benefits those who could if they wished take an active part in political life and make society into a true democracy allow the political class to rule.
In a time of peace and plenty this is not such a bad deal but don't call it democracy.